Saturday, May 30, 2009

I am back ...

It's amazing what an year can do to your life..! I mean it could bring all the happiness into your life or suck the life out of your life (Ironic isn't it ?). Well the last year (It's been an year since I have made my last post.. ) was a 30-7o in terms of ups and downs with more downs than I can handle.. so I spent most of the past 12 months trying to regain footing.. But then on a brighter side the learning curve was steepest during this time , I learned a lot about myself as well as others and am sure that will help me in not repeating the mistakes that I have committed in the past.
In my opinion "Expectations are the root cause for all problems". This is not to say that lack of expectations will not land you in troubles but expecting less would also make your problems less intimidating.. More on this later... 
Moving on from "lessons learnt" segment .. Being in US for nearly 4 years, I have turned out to be an avid follower of American Football (NFL) and a hardcore fan of "NewEnglandPatriots (NWE)". While it was a happy time during the regular season where they went 16-0 and 11-5 the past two years was miserable during the playoffs.. They lost in superbowl in 2008 and they didn't make the playoffs in 2009 (It's a first in 20+ years that a team with a 11-5 didn't make it to the post season..) During the off-season I follow NBA and Cleveland Cavaliers are my favorite team .. they too give me plenty to moan during the playoffs .. They were defeated by the eventual champions Boston last year in the Eastern Conference Semifinals.. I hope and Pray that they will not be eliminated today by Orlando "Magic".. (It's playoffs time  baby..). I am amazed at the role sports can play in everyone's everyday life. We roll with our teams.. we rise and fall with them. A few months ago in College Basketball's National championship game Michigan state was playing University of North Carolina (UNC) and many were rooting for the Cinderella team "Michigan State" to beat UNC ,so people of Detroit can feel better in spite of the economic downturn at the "Auto-Capital of the world". I think people will look around for reasons to make them happy and Identifying themselves with winners falls into that type.. Imagine if India wins the Cricket world cup,we would celebrate for months,talk for years and cherish for decades.. Sports is truly amazinggggg..
India went to elections and the world called it the "most remarkable election". While I have my doubts about the effectiveness of Congress govt especially with the power not with the PM (entire nation knows but chose not to do anything .. ), I am happy that the government has a clear majority and do not need to spend most of its time pacifying the many coalition partners.. Way to go.. ! 
I have promised in the past that I will blog regularly and failed.. so although my intentions are the same even now i.e to blog regularly.. I will stay away from making the promise.. Thanks to all the people who made me realize the importance of expressing myself .. :)
Cheers ..

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4 Comments:

Anonymous vamsee said...

Welcome back...

Surprising how sports leave an inedible mark on one's life. They teach you how to take the losses in your stride, analyze your weak points and fight back with 'Never Give Up' philosophy. They also set an example of how to treat one's triumphs - Be gracious in your victories and respect the opponents defeat.

No wonder we have to a lot to learn from them as you have rightly pointed out.

Welcome back once again and keep posting regularly.

Sun May 31, 01:50:00 PM CDT  
Blogger ravi shankar said...

@Vamsee
Thanks..Can't put in any better words than you about the value of sports man.. We all can learn something watching the sports..

Sun May 31, 02:53:00 PM CDT  
Blogger Unknown said...

Well said Ravi.

Watching sports always increase your energy levels, game plans and thought processing, though playing sports gives you more than watching :)

Good article ra.. Can you share what lessons did you learn the entire last year that made you learn to not make less mistakes?

Ramchander.

Mon Jun 01, 01:15:00 AM CDT  
Blogger karthik said...

its a gud post mate.
its true that expectations reduce joy but how to win over it? given a thought to this? :) :) :)
dude! its just human to expect what we are ready to give and many times people dont realise what we can be to them.

-Karthik

Mon Jun 01, 01:16:00 AM CDT  

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